Sophomore Eli Zeitlin has always been drawn to first days, from the unfamiliar taste of a new dish to the disorientation of landing in a foreign country. It has always been easy, yet nothing quite prepared him for stepping off a plane in Taiwan for an exchange program armed with fewer than 15 words of the language.
“Especially when my Chinese was bad, I would just spend like hours in a day just sitting and listening to people speak Chinese, (which was) basically just gibberish to me,” he said.
Zeitlin arrived in early September determined to learn Chinese.
“From my experience living in another country and learning Spanish there, I know that the best way to learn a language was to just go to the country,” he said. “So I figured, if I can do (an) exchange (program) to Taiwan, then I’d come out with much better Chinese.”
Between his attempts to work with the language barrier and the societal differences, even Zeitlin’s naturally social persona found itself quieter than normal.
“I’m used to making friends pretty easily, but when I can’t speak the same language and if there’s different cultural stuff, I’m a whole different person basically,” he said. “I don’t have a full Chinese vocabulary at all, especially when I first got there, so it wasn’t as easy to match someone’s energy.”
With time, however, the adjustment softened. As his Chinese words came more readily, so did friendships. It was important for Zeitlin to show interest in even the smallest things while making new friends, such as one friend who convinced him to download a video game.
“I wasn’t really interested in (the video game) at all, but I thought I should download and learn how to play this game, just so we would have more to talk about,” Zeitlin said. “He was really excited to teach me about it, and I also discovered that he was a Rubik’s Cuber, so we bonded over that too.”
Throughout his experience, Zeitlin speaks most warmly about his memories with his host family.
“My host brothers were very good at English, so we’d have all sorts of great conversations,” he said. “It was always a lot of fun to have a bunch of kids to sit with and talk with every single night.”
By the end of the exchange, what he carried home was not improved fluency alone, but something else in his pocket: tolerance and appreciation for discomfort.
“I think my exchange trip to Taiwan has given me appreciation for doing things that are really difficult and doing things that are uncomfortable,” he said.